| Location | Leigh-on-sea |
| Age | 77 years |
| Cause of Death | Pneumonia |
| Date of Birth | 09/02/1931 |
| Date of Death | 20/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 502 since 31/10/2008 |
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DIED PEACEFULLY FROM BRONCHOPNEUMONIA AFTER A 10 YEAR BATTLE WITH WALDENSTROM'S MACROGLOBULINAEMIA
happy birthday
hi mum happy birthday hun hope you have had a great day cause great is exactly what you were and still are, we all miss you and love you so much still but its hard to tell you this on hee but you know that and dont need us to tell you will speak again soon and fill you in on all the goings on there is a lot to tell lol love and miss you always happy birthday again mum love from ian and kim,aneleise,melissa,shania,leah and felix(cat) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
miss you
hi sorry i havent sent in a while but you know what im like caught up in one thing then that all i do hehe. ive met a really nice guy his names ross anad he comes from bedford an older man eh ehi cant resist them.he is a angel and i think you would of liked him,im still convinced you sent him because he winds mum up like crazy. he proposed to me on valentines day and we are getting married in 2013.i really wish you could be there it wont be the same but i know youll be looking down on me.and youll be there in my heart where you always are .ive nearly finished my first year at college and im trying so hard .i hope your proud of who i ma becoming and theres not a day goes by when i dont think of you. i love you and miss you soo much. sleep tight xxxxxxxxxxxx
hi mum can't believe its been a year already really really missing you as our song says it was you who was the wind in my wings i love you so much and miss you very much hope robert arrived on time and behaving himself and dad is keeping him on the straight and narrow you will always be a part of this family and have done much more than we ever said thanks for things arent the same .kim and i are determined to try and make new year ggo with a bang as it was your party piece just hope we live up to the expectations your as loved now are you was last year the year before and the 37 and a bit years we had with you love you so much missing you loads take care speak soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hi lilian
so sorry that i was not there for you when you passed from us to heven i still miss you at the new years party as new year was your night party girl lilian
i no ian kim and the girls miss you so much as do sharon and her family anna had a great 16th birthday party there was just one person miss and that was you
as robert was in southend hos again you no robert he has to do someing his way
on a sad note robert has left us for heven to be with his beloved mother
ian sharon david and the kids lost a brother/ulcle and i lost one of my best mates
hi mum sorry its been a while been busy and to be totally honest its hard to say the things that i should say to you face to face but you were taken and i can't change that although i would of gave anything to of you no that anyway some bad news robert is coming to join you we tried to make him strong and to look after himself but he could do it no more andon sat the 18th july he died peacefully in southend hospital we all miss him but no you and dad will look after him now and make sure he looks afterhimself we all love you so much still and the hurt has yet to pass we miss you loads will talk soon love you always
ian
p.s kim and the girls send there love and miss you loads
i miss u
its been a year,
since you were taken away from me,
i tried to see clear,
but i could not see,
why did you have to go.
i no your looking down on the family,
but i wish you were here to say,
follow your dreams and let yourself free,
but i just wanted you to stay,
why did you have to go.
they say it is the best people that die,
why not the bad ones not the best,
i try my hardest not to cry,
the hardest day was when we laid you to rest,
why did you have to go.
you were always happy and never moaned,
you held your head high you spoke out loud,
you were there for me,
i am so proud,
to be your grandaughter.
hi mum as you no yesterday was my birthday and it was so surreal as it was the first time in my life i didn't get a card from you its times like this that it really sets in that your not with us no more and thats when the hurt starts again we all miss you so much but i miss you so much if it wasn't for kim and the kids i don't no what i would do probably come and join you .... no you no i am stronger than that but what we wouldn't give to spend some more quality time with you again always thinking of you and missing you more each day.aneleise has new boyfriend and doing well in her exams melissa is also doing well at school and has got the subjects she wants shania is trying hard and doing ok and leah is getting around loads more now and still calling nan nan nan and kim is trying to be the rock you were but says she will never be the woman you were but she is getting there and they all miss you so much, i don't thing the hurt will ever heal but nor will our love for you you will be with us for ever as long as we breath air im nothing without you but kids and kim think differently so they keep me going as your song says you were the wind beneath our wings and we have to learn to fly again love you mum for ever take care for now mum will talk again soon miss you love you more
love ian
and
(kim aneleise melissa shania leah)
nan
i miss you sooooooooo much and life is very different without you.i have no one to torment and ive lost my best friend.now i have to pick on mum on my own.my partner in crime is now missing.i made a dance up for you to audition for the dance show ;i wanted to make you proud of me.unfortunatly i didnt get picked so i will not give up until i know ive made you proud.
i love you
god bless
xxxxxxxxxxxx
aneleise
nan
i miss you sooooooooo much and life is very different without you.i have no one to torment and ive lost my best friend.now i have to pick on mum on my own.my partner in crime is now missing.i made a dance up for you to audition for the dance show ;i wanted to make you proud of me.unfortunatly i didnt get picked so i will not give up until i know ive made you proud.
i love you
god bless
xxxxxxxxxxxx
aneleise
missing you loads xx
hi nan missing you loads and wishing you were still here but i no you are looking down on me and guiding me in the right direction. i had my options meeting last week i choose dance, drama, child development, 21st century science and additional science. i am doing really well at school but wish you could be here with me. i got a level 6 in science maths and english setting my own targets. i hope you are proud of what i am achieving. say hello to grandad bourne grandad ashton and nanny ashton and hope the two men are not keeping you up all night with their snoring. lol hows butch give him a big hug from me. i am not very well at the mo but as you say better out than in. lol againgot to go now mums got dinner ready she is getting better at cooking now the lessons paid of. dads fne keeping strong but he is a very strong man and i no you will be proud of him just lke we are. leah is dancing around getting big now calling you all the time. love her love you loads wish you could be so i could give you a big hug and kiss in person. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxmel

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